tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post7723423720509694892..comments2024-02-26T02:02:51.364-05:00Comments on Queers United: Word of the Gay: "Heterosexism"Queers Unitedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05074493276489593816noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-81321013321218307092008-08-21T21:30:00.000-04:002008-08-21T21:30:00.000-04:00so it turns out cissexism is a real word, i guess ...so it turns out cissexism is a real word, i guess ill make it tomorrow's WOG.<BR/><BR/>Laurie - Homosexist? lol, it's true homosexism is a word.Queers Unitedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074493276489593816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-59593870354864246812008-08-21T19:44:00.000-04:002008-08-21T19:44:00.000-04:00I wonder now if there is a word for thinking that ...I wonder now if there is a word for <BR/>thinking that everybody is HOMOsexual? Now <BR/>that would throw the perverbial wrench in<BR/>the system wouldn't it.<BR/><BR/><BR/>HUGS!!!!!!Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01645677037265997958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-61316235308368710602008-08-21T18:53:00.000-04:002008-08-21T18:53:00.000-04:00Where I'm from, people always assume I have a girl...Where I'm from, people always assume I have a girlfriend, since I don't fit the "gay stereotype," then when I tell them I'm gay, they always respond with, "well, I had a feeling." Whatever, you thought I was straight....you heterosexist.Joie Mayfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13990340512137818562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-84763653247418816192008-08-21T18:31:00.000-04:002008-08-21T18:31:00.000-04:00Anonymous - I think cissexism should be a word. S...Anonymous - I think cissexism should be a word. Shall we declare it a word on the blog lol? I don't know how much traction it will get. You may also like this recent post <A HREF="http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2008/08/cisgender-privilege-checklist.html" REL="nofollow">http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2008/08/cisgender-privilege-checklist.html</A>Queers Unitedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074493276489593816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-84755496586066497622008-08-21T18:26:00.000-04:002008-08-21T18:26:00.000-04:00Heterosexism?Yeah, seen a lot of that. Not fun at ...Heterosexism?<BR/>Yeah, seen a lot of that. Not fun at all. ("When ya get married and have kids, make sure your husband...")<BR/><BR/><BR/>It's a shame there isn't a cissexism (assumption that everyone is cisgendered). If cissexism became a word, I could rant and rant about it...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-71091421919578920002008-08-21T16:51:00.000-04:002008-08-21T16:51:00.000-04:00You all make great comments, and it just shows how...You all make great comments, and it just shows how heterosexism plagues all of our lives on a daily basis.<BR/><BR/>Personally I am so sick of people assuming I have a girlfriend or saying "what do you think of her?" They don't do it out of malice but it is just irritating.Queers Unitedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074493276489593816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-39636098632485161722008-08-21T14:58:00.000-04:002008-08-21T14:58:00.000-04:00It's true that this happens a lot, but I think it'...It's true that this happens a lot, but I think it's so incredibly important that gays are tolerant of it. In a perfect world, heterosexuality wouldn't be assumed, but we live in a not-so-perfect world, and it does no good to make a person feel bad when they didn't have negative intentions in the first place.<BR/><BR/>I deal with it all the time, and--yeah, I hate it--but you have to be tolerant and compassionate at the same time.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01393632283391798121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-90604935130507145322008-08-21T14:48:00.000-04:002008-08-21T14:48:00.000-04:00yeah...I get the "what does your husband do?" rout...yeah...I get the "what does your husband do?" routine...if a telemarketer calls and asks if the man of the house is home, I just ask if it's an odd or even day because my wife and I swap roles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-45205220534074695182008-08-21T13:44:00.000-04:002008-08-21T13:44:00.000-04:00I always find it amusing how long this one can be ...I always find it amusing how long this one can be kept up for, especially when there's much evidence and not-so-subtle-hints to the contrary. <BR/><BR/>I've only known one person who hasn't assumed off the bat that I'm straight. It doesn't bother me all that much when people do, but I was still touched by how open-minded this guy was.Ellishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02974246078053589829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451574857665049482.post-80528708885262854092008-08-21T12:39:00.000-04:002008-08-21T12:39:00.000-04:00The fact that I wear a wedding and engagement ring...The fact that I wear a wedding and engagement ring on my left hand attracts so much of this. This is a frequent conversation in my life:<BR/>"Looks like you're making something special," a cashier remarks.<BR/>"Yeah, eggplant rollatini." (Or a gourmet chicken salad, or my special "Fig Pig Figs," or what have you.)<BR/>"Wow, your husband's lucky."<BR/>"Um, wife, actually."<BR/>"Ohhh..."<BR/><BR/>You think, once the laws are changed for good in more states, there will be fewer conversations like that? I doubt it. But I ain't taking my rings off.CrackerLilohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18176388186521154104noreply@blogger.com