Word of the Gay: "Bisexy"

Someone who is "bisexy" appeals to and generates attention from people of all sexes.

Open Forum: Rethinking Bisexuality

It is without doubt that there are people who experience romantic/erotic attractions to more than one sex. Typically we have called this group of people bisexual. There are many individuals who have moved away from the term finding that it isn't inclusive enough of their own feelings and identity.

Some are taken back by the stereotypes associated with bisexuality and therefore seek to distance themselves from being associated with those negative and false connotations. Some people simply do not like that the word 'sexual' is in the term because it implies that the orientation is only about sex when in fact that is only one aspect of it. Finally, there are those who prefer terms such as queer, pansexual, omnisexual, and fluid to describe their identity because they find bisexuality limiting.

Bi means two and therefore many are turned off by the dichotomy that it presents. If you are bi it means you like males and females to some degree. Many people find that this excludes many other sexes and genders such as those who are intersex, transgender, genderqueer, androgynous or non-gendered. That is why these new terms have popped up to describe sexual identities that are more inclusive of all people.

What about re-conceiving what bisexuality is all about? Bi does mean two but we don't have to approach bisexuality as interest in two sexes (male & female). Why can't bi refer to those who are romantically/erotically attracted to both a masculine and feminine spirit that individuals offer. By discussing the essence of an individual it eliminates all reference to gender and sex and instead focuses on the characteristics that people find attractive.

Do you think bisexuality is outdated? Or is there room for new interpretation that can include everyone with attractions to more than one sex and gender under an already established and understood term called bisexual?

Word of the Gay: "Twixter"

A "twixter" is a British term for a bisexual, or someone who is displaying mixed gender expressions.

Word of the Gay: "Bi-Attractional"

Someone "bi-attractional" has the potential to form romantic, emotional, and/or erotic relationships with members of either sex.

Web Spotlight: BiFest UK

BiFest is a one-day event celebrating bisexuality, for bisexuals and bi-friendly people. Originating in London, it has now spread to several other United Kingdom locations and seeks to expand further.

New Leaflet: Am I Bi?

Bisexual Index has come out with a new leaflet titled 'Am I Bi?' for those questioning whether they may be bisexual. It sorts out some questions that bisexual or bi-curious individuals ask themselves in an effort to help solidify their sexual identity. It also makes an interesting case for bisexuality not limiting the genders to the male and female spectrum, a discussion we had here previously on the post "Is Bisexuality Old School?". It argues that bisexuality is "not an attempt to box gender into two options, it's the realization you are into more than one option and some people prefer similarity, difference or both." The leaflet also provides resources for those who are bi or questioning.

H/T to Bi Media.

Michael Musto: "Are Bisexuals Real?"

Michael Musto columnist for the Village Voice has come out with a bi-phobic, anti-scientific column titled Ever Meet a Real Bisexual? questioning the legitimacy of bisexuality.

"Everyone always says they're bisexual, blabbing on and on about how "sexuality is fluid, and I don't really like labels"--but usually I find these are just gay men who are afraid to come out. I know there are real bisexuals out there--mainly because I've heard that there are--and I do think it's a lovely idea to actually crave sex with people regardless of gender. I'm just wondering how real a phenomenon this is, as opposed to a smoke-and-mirrors coverup designed to keep antsy gays in the closet.

Most of the guys I know who say they're bisexual end up doing Bette Davis impersonations after a few drinks, and when you invite them to an all-girl bar, they get excited, thinking you mean Splash. But do you know anyone who REALLY is equally attracted to both men and women and effortlessly glides between those two dating pools without a second's thought or self-consciousness? If so, do you ever suspect they're full of shit?"

Suggesting bisexuality is a phenomenon, or that bisexual men are closeted liars is offensive and outright wrong!

Contact Michael Musto and tell him biphobia has no place in the Village Voice.

Blog Spotlight: BiNet USA

BiNet USA provides news, updates, and essays by and for America's bisexual community.

Web Spotlight: Bi.org

Bi.org is a comprehensive website serving the world bisexual community. Wherever you are on this planet, there are resources, groups, news and more that pertains to you and your local bisexual and GLBT community that are listed.

BECAUSE 2009 - April 17-19, 2009; Minneapolis, MN

Bisexual Empowerment Conference: A Uniting, Supportive Experience (BECAUSE) 2009 - April 17-19, 2009; Minneapolis, MN.

BECAUSE Conference is the premier weekend event in the Midwest for bisexuals, queers, trans, bi-curious, questioning, and all others, regardless of identity.

This conference is open to everyone! Register today and bring a friend!

Date: April 17-19, 2009

Time:
Friday - 6:30pm -- Registration begins
7:00pm -- Keynote Speaker

Saturday - 8:30am -- Registration opens
9:00am - 5:00pm -- Workshops
7:00pm - midnight -- Entertainment/Social

Sunday - noon -- Informal pay-as-you-go lunch gathering

Location:
Coffman Union
University of Minnesota
300 Washington Ave. SE
Minneapolis, MN 55455

Register today at http://www.becauseconference.org/

Word of the Gay: "Convertible"

The term "Convertible" is a coy synonym for a bisexual person.

Word of the Gay: "Bisensual"

A "bisensual" person is emotionally/romantically attracted to both genders. In some cases there could be sexual attraction as well, but in others the person is asexual with a romantic attraction to both genders.

Word of the Gay: "Or-Bisexual"

An "or-bisexual" is someone who is attracted to both genders but chooses to be monogamous with one gender while in a relationship.

Happy Bisexual Pride Day!

Sept 23rd is Bisexual Pride Day! Whether a bisexual or an ally, Happy Bi Pride, be out, proud, and loud!


Today you can come out to your friends, family, co-workers as bisexual.

Learn more about the bisexual orientation.

Make a contribution to one of the bisexual organizations such as BiNetUSA, Bialogue, the Bisexual Resource Center,
or the American Institute for Bisexuality.

Join a bisexual social, political, or support group in your area or local LGBT center.